Please tell us your name

Contessa Zoe Aspasia

What is your location Country, state/province and city?

Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I'm a frequent traveler as well to Canadian cities such as Montreal, Ottawa, Vancouver and other major cities like New York, Boston and San Francisco.

Do you own slaves in your personal life? If so where did you meet and what duties do they fulfill?

Yes I do. One on Collarme.com, one at a Fetish Party, and one through mutual friends.

As for duties they better my life each in different ways. I can't properly express my affection and appreciation for each of them here so I'll put it in more of a short, outside view perspective. One is only online and is distance training and play on cam and in person when I can visit them. One is a play partner, arm candy and we trade other skills outside of the DS relationship, as well as they help me take care of tools and some cleaning, they come with me to public events to be put on display. Another is a play partner and I direct them in their play with others. They help me with technical things, we travel together and more. That really doesn't represent any of them properly but it gives you an idea that all of them are different and aside from amazing play and kinky interactions we have great relationships that are mutually beneficial.

Do you have an area of expertise? If yes tell us a bit about it.

Several. One that I am well known for is Wrestling, which I've been doing for years, human punching bag, kicks, trampling, fitness training, beatdowns, scissoring and chokes, breathplay, body bondage: there's nothing like a Domina who can pin you down to use you without rope :) Aside from that I do enjoy lot of Foot play, Extreme Pain Training and specialized themed scenes like Canadian Asskicking, Transman, Hentai teacher, TankGirl/Post- Apocalyptic, Twisted Medical Experimentation and torture and more..

What should a potential submissive client know about you before trying to schedule a session?

They should fully explore my website to see my interests, hard boundaries and my style. I don't book last minute sessions or anything I will not enjoy. If I feel like we click we can discuss moving forward, and if we don't I won't see them and may refer them to someone else. There is nothing worse than a mismatched session where you can tell someone is bored or out of headspace. It's an experience that both of us should enjoy. Approach with respect and clear about your interests and boundaries as well. I love experienced players and newbies alike, and there are plenty of options for serving me beyond the traditional session.

Do you have your own Dungeon or do you rent? What kind of equipment and toys can be found there?

I share a space with two other phenominal Dominas. We all have different areas of expertise and complement each other very well and support each other. As for toys, just ask, I have pretty much everything. For furniture, spanking bench, bondage bed, dancing box, st andrews cross, living room area (for folks not so into the dungeon look), fully equipped shower facilities, kitchenette (for dirty cooking and apron-wearing slaves) and more. Medical is covered, electro, wrestling mats (great for bad knees) and more.

What are your favorite types of sessions?

Anything I offer on my site- and I have a long list of interests- is something I enjoy. If I tire of something I take it down. However, I do enjoy breathplay and medical torture, human punching bag and fitness training torture as well as food crush, foot pampering and golden.

How did you become a professional Dominatrix and what were your first experiences like as a ProDomme?

I answered an ad on craigslist from a stranger, had a session and then posted an ad myself directly afterward. Then it was on. I eased into the things I offered as a pro and intensified (according to my scale of light vs heavy) what I offered over time to make sure that I wouldn't be taking away from my play at home. My first session was a delightful foot fetish-humiliation-spittoon combination. In contrast the last session I did was extreme ballbusting, golden and fingering a delicate urethra with my pinky.

How long have you been involved with BDSM as a professional Dominatrix?

8-9 years or so.

What is your natural demeanor (e.g. strict, humorous,friendly)?

I'm from a small town so I am quite friendly, open and honest. I'm also direct and to the point and don't put up with disrespect. I'm somewhat of a prankster and comedienne so the headfuck that comes with sessions with me is delicious. Sometimes people will not realize how much they were used until they leave because of the wicked smile on my face and my soft tone. I rarely yell, but I can dish out punishment like a tyrant. I'm creative and resourceful as well, which often leaves people with everyday triggers to bring them back to our scene.

What is your most memorable session?

I couldn't name one honestly, I enjoy all that I do, and most scenes leave me buzzing.

What is your website address?

zoe-aspasia.com